It’s a news came in all the media-papers,TV,Radio, social& mouth-just like all others,I too heard it,read it,sympathized& empathized with his parents,so this blog is dedicated to all the sorrowing individuals on Sachin’s unexpected demise,in July 2012@ Bangalore.

What,Who,When,Why,&How?

Sachin was an Engineering student in Bangaluru from Trivandrum.One day, while going back to Bangalore in a train,he took shawarma(an arabic sandwitch,famous in Gulf,now made available in kerala by some lovers of it) from TVM,(Vazhuthacadu) to have it in the train.Next day  morning he reached his room in Bangaluru and later found dead ,before going to college.As investigations are going on in this issue,no explanations are available,till the case is over.DNA Of Excellence Group sincerely empathizes  with the sorrowing family,friends,teachers&all other groups.”A drop of tear,dear Sachin,for you from all of us!!”

The event; as usual in the land,is being celebrated in the media.As a result,all hotels& food outlets in kerala being under check up by Govt.authorities,Resulting in the removal of unusable foods from these places,even closing up of some unfit outlets.Under these circumstances,”DNA2012” @ Cochin  has to be  postponed to Next month,till hotels& mind sets,  settle back to normal fearless  attitude.This intimated by my  personal call  to registered  delegates.  Have NO  doubt,EQ Skills rescue us from many pitfalls, leading even unto death !

In the Gulf countries  It is RAMADAN  observing time. Wonderful self control and self management is being observed from top to bottom in UAE. May God Almighty give strength for all , to continue the long hours of fasting and prayers,without even  a drop of water in the hot- hottest- -season.This self control&self management are TWO most important EQ Skills,can be applied directly to increase in productivity & Development in personal, professional,social,political and Global Levels. How ? WE  at DNA have HALF offer for all this years events, and all contracts ,if confirmed in Holy Ramadan.Events will be only after EID -ul -Fitr.

As usual the holy  Ramadan  sustains &leads to  the GREAT hope of EID.

 

THE DUBAI TRAGEDY OF SEPT.28,was reported by Gulf News ,the Leading Daily  from DUBAI, as”

• 00:00 September 28, 2011,

”Teenager devastated as mother and brother die’

Mother jumps to her death after five-year-old son falls from eighth floor in Jumeirah Lake Towers ,Dubai”……….

……”The security guard who tried to catch the boy got injured and was later sent to hospital. Upon seeing this, she became hysterical and rushed to her apartment where she jumped out of the window. The boy died shortly after, but the mother died instantly, police said.”

The incident points to the need for ‘Emotional Self Control& Serious Self Awareness’–two EQ skills essential ‘EVEN for an ordinary home maker role, apart from leaders and managers of different caliber. That clears our doubts about the need for developing these competencies,whatever may be the role that we are in; here in this travel on earth.

Its really shocking ,but to learn lessons from events that happened,elsewhere ,will help us to face  difficult life  situations    intelligently,wisely and the best way possible.If anything can cause A mother not to go up & jump but to sit beside the son(the minimum to console the teenager or to call for help to make a last attempt to save),that one thing is most desirable in any body’s life.

When one could apply the EQ skills in real life,it saves not only his life but the life of many with whom he interacts,depending on his realm.

When we are so ‘busy’, and ”they do not have time for all that,because of business trips” as some people observed, we are neglecting something which is prime  just for  the existence. As Oliver Goldsmith puts it ”Real greatness  is  in  getting  up from the fall,than not to fall”.

We cannot expect a life without problems and challenges,but TRAIN our Heart And MIND ,how to face it with a real Self Awareness and Emotional Self Control. The motto; of DNA 2011 on NOV.5,6,7,@ Al Raha Beach Hotel Abu dhabi; itself is Change Starts TODAY.  Read about it  in our website, click ,DNA2011, read more.

‘Today,now,is the earliest,if did not  start before”. Join now,click here.

Globalization has caused us to link more tight and more frequent,than ever before.As per last years assessment,the middle east is hosting around 173 nationalities in some of her cities.Though for practical  purposes, we never show or express our differences,IT does exist among us; work,grow and multiply with us,as years pass by. Finally all suppressed,hidden items,will come up and fight with us,internally (secretly!),or externally(publicly),at times when we do not want that to happen at all…………….!

How can we avoid collapsing in this multitude of diversities anywhere and everywhere? If we cannot,that is how some of us become permanently sick and on medication.Because everything starts with,our internal strength,  one has to increase  this by reducing the differences and hence bridging the gap between oneself  and the rest of the  world represented in his work pace.It really needs   serious training to  improve these skills which is already there,in less active form;to go up in corporate ladder or  the minimum to keep the job with proper interactions with all  others.

In Culture ,what is visible,  is only the TIP of the ice berg.The majority is underneath,which necessitates cross cultural training for proper interaction. This sustains our  job in a foreign country of different culture,where again 173 nationalities join hands for productivity &development.

A recent investigatory report on present Teenager issues,in the daily “Malayala Manorama” under the title “our Children,without our Notice” has shed light into many real incidents that happened among school children&teenagers,from north to south,and east to west, inside a small state in India.The outcome,really shuddered all socially active people  around the Globe,who are involved or interested in the formation of the young generation.(Reference: The daily “Malayala  Manorama” August 2, 2011 to 9th august ).The  incidents collected and reported,points to the urgent  basic need,’ to change’ the present situations by taking strong and heathy reformational actions at the origin-the source, ie, our children.

WHAT?????

Yes, EQ Training from the age group 10 yrs or 12, will  be one of these actions,to implement real change  at the source!

It should not stop there  at Teens,it should be extended to teachers,parents,social change agents,professionals ,Leaders of all kinds,all those interested,customized  for  different levels.We have the best people to lead,but application of emotional intelligence in the process is  lacking to a certain extend.Leading without EQ  will  cause  negative results and degrade the hard work,without the maximum result.We,   at ‘DNA Of Excellence’ are dedicated to this cause,at all levels of the society.It is our strong conviction  that one should discover himself,for personal development and to help, to implement the same in another person.Yes,they really used to discover & rediscover, themselves very deep, in our transformational sessions.