KOODATHAI EVENT IN THE LENS OF World Mental Health Day,10/10/2019

https://english.manoramaonline.com/news/kerala/2019/10/05/koodathay-family-mysterious-death

While reading the daily descriptions on this event, several thoughts emerged in and merged with  customs, beliefs, cults, trust, love, rituals, inheritance, and above all culture of  groups of people residing in this beautiful area and the genuine  reality of life underneath…..

As usual, while audio and visual media celebrate the incident by hourly descriptions, group discussions, interviews and videos on it, for sustaining viewers and satisfying their quest (or right) to know,  I was deeply moved by a query-so spontaneous from a ten year old, who was watching and following it up, and it awakened in me the need for Design Thinking around our activities–done, seen, experienced, visualized  or victimized…Also a sixth or seventh sense opened in , around the sources:  of what has come out, from sixteen years duration.

Just this ”Mumma, these are parts of a channel Mega Serial in Malayalam, as usual, or do these things really happen there??”

That opened a possibility, a source of deviation in thinking; many similar incidents WE the remaining ones never remembered to dig in…..even accidents on roads. To have more publicity, heart freezing, plotting on life in many ways as depicted in serials, making it mega mega serials, hinting new methods of revenge, suicide, avenge , homicide and family ruptures….it is still more than that..okay. Is it Enhancing the mental health of a society ??or cause doom?

 On 10/10/2019 – we just raise this  to the consciousness of all of us – rethink, it’s time.

ON THIS WORLD MENTAL HEALTH DAY, WE AT DNA OF EXCELLENCE GROUP encourage you all, for a Self Digging-into incidents : seen, experienced, heard, read, visualized or happened around us; so far just neglected areas of us and of others’ needs as well.

A koodathai person is not just one – seemingly ordinary person,  just walk and act in between us, now came into limelight but a representative of many who really do mischief’s, in the backing of many…(namely money, gang,  supporters, social good name, political hold…) Just be aware of self and others. Help those in need of advise, guidance, model, goals..the way we can. Let us pledge to rescue the social consciousness, instead of blaming individuals causing damage, let us lend a hand to RAISE the morale and so mental health of our  groups.

Nothing demoralizing, emerged in a day; but gradually formed, so let us create healthy relations, selfless organizing, nice surroundings, goal oriented life skills, leading and promising models, and value systems to revive and empower adolescents, youngsters, adults and ‘matured’ alike. IT IS POSSIBLE-START TODAY THE MENTAL HEALTH DAY….Otherwise its just naming a day without any sustaining change…

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Creativity boosting Further – by detoxifying the brain&immunity enhancing

The Spirulina production, as a part of one of my studies of enhancing immunity, revealed so easy to improve the natural resistive power of brain and body. Here it is not so widely used but in Japan and western countries spirulina powder is sold with recipes.Simply you can add to fruit or vegetable juice to enhance the protein and vitamin content-Now how did i relate it with creativity-the must have quality to opt for engineering?
Oh,be sure I am not an engineer.
Once I asked my little daughter,how I (scientist) am different from an engineer,she immediately answered with a smile,”oh,ya, scientists mam, unfold the existing truths in a useful way whereas an engineer ‘CREATES’ that what is discovered” To inspire,i got a thread from herself,took it as a chance to take her the creative wonders the entire realm of various engineering studies offers.
The rest of the talk was done by the audience (papa) -the real engineer-so I was rescued from the details which I was not sure!!
As a Biochemist I can tell you,spirulina can reduce cholestrol,triglycerides and LDL cholestrol levels where it is needed,because of the high level GLA [gamma linolineic acid] content.The presence of high beta carotene(anti cancer sub) in spirulina reduce cancer risks,in otherwords enhance the immunity of our system.secret:it even promote skin metabolism and reduce scars formation—hai-be young and heathy by using

That’s how creativity boosting ,immunity enhancing and brain detoxifying (little ,okey?) converged into one point ;spirulina ,in my thoughts .
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what DNA OF EXCELLENCE Group strives to cleanse off the employee

Recently,one of my clients called my mobile,for an urgent need of an employee.Being landed,just 15 days before,he was panic of his rights,freedom,salary,working hours,and even future goals.He was thinking of ‘making’ a lot of dollar on a daily basis,butneither he don’t want to work,nor he want to learn the systemic work that is going on in the company. He thought of Abudhabi-very rich-where getting a visa means he is legally suppose to get big salary,accomodation,free food,ticket and transportation as per rules but for that what is his responsibilty to do in return,he forgot-in his own words ” i don’t care,i am not for this profession, I want my job(as if the sponsor did a big crime to him,by giving available job.It is said that,he even start quarelling with the manager.
The manager tried to explain,how he can reach his goal,by doing todays’ job sincerely and productively.But the manager told me he never listen what he is trying to make him realize.
So they called me,to settle it.The rest i don’t disclose,but he realized that when he work hard its he who improves in many skills and not just the company.Its development is secondary only
Employee empowerment is the first goal,by doing a job well.
We @DNA want every employee to be cheerful and devoid of such complexes,as also able to listen &collect,even an advice of a subordinate and implement change in his life!In short,be productive even in thinking process.

REDESIGNING CORPORATE TRAINING-STARTING AT THE SOURCE

 

Last week in Sharjah, UAE, the GM of a corporate group,was disclosing:” Whatever training so far given,apart from computer or technical,failed in its anticipated outcome”.

Do you agree with this observation? If so why?

Yes,if it is an ‘yes’,what can we do to make it work the way the managers want-to  bring out the desired outcome?(your responses most welcome)

Can You Create Employee Engagement without Self Engagement?

Research has shown that employees would not get engaged if they perceive top leadership to be disengaged!

We, at DNA Of Excellence group,have a definite solution for this issue,as usual   we do  offer for any other related problem, to redesign the entire training strategies,starting from the source-the very source of action- the trainee.Further extension to other  levels,including upper layer officers.

we start by putting participants in a simulation where they experience the   feelings of both disengagement and engagement, to feel the real difference between the two, and then learn how to develop engagement for themselves, then for others.

Employee Engagement should be increased by training and other measures,to hundred percent,than what is existing today.It is a proven fact that disengaged employees and disengaged team  leaders,do affect the effectiveness of even a hundred percent engaged employee.

As this may happen ,at times ,due to lack of awareness,guidance and determination,a training module like ours can produce dramatic &unbelievable results in the entire organization,as evidenced by many.

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”JUST FIVE MINUTES ,PLEASE”

I ts all about; how our communication changes its meaning,depending on the culture of the speaker /group he belongs.

This small but real&remarkable incident  was communicated to me by one of my “celebrity friends”.

She had taken an appointment from another continent, with a media manager,who gave her the  time. ONCE she reached in the city,of his  country,(just for two days,for this & a couple of similar appointments),it was 9 am .The media manager came at the reception,and told her,he is in a meeting with the MD and so come @ 4pm.He has added that she can meet  a lot of ‘useful’ friends and colleagues and even can have a former introduction  of her purpose of visiting him,& can settle it there.

Impressed ,however,by the motivation,she wandered,shopped,dined there  and brought the 4 pm,then called the manager.He asked ,where exactly she is waiting,then told to wait for ” just Five  minutes, I am coming there”.She and two colleagues waited in the parked car,till 5.30 pm,and called again.This time manager told he is already out &walking towards her &”just five minutes,please”.

Convinced of her foolishness,she wanted  to runaway,as of now, all appointments nearby are pending.Still,the usual power of media,really made her wait one more hour,@6.30pm again she called,he said,”I am already here,just two minutes to cross the road ” AND SHE SAID SHE BELIEVED IT , waited till 7.30pm and left the city. After exactly 7 minutes his call came ,that he has reached,and” come soon”.Irritated,but happy that it has come to an end,she returned to the same place and met him.Then the climax,the manager told her that he was in a town two hrs  away,want her not to go,so said five minutes!!

In  a TWO day Trip  ,one precious day went just like that.She returned,unfulfilled ,her mission.

Whom do you support,my friend,who did not have the cultural competency of the land/people to realize,there(?) 5 minutes can be like this-

OR the manager ,who  does not had the EQ skill (self confidence) to admit, that it will take two hours to reach,with an apology??? what are the other elements, which u think, are embedded in the happening ?

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by the by,which city do you guess this happened?? if not  the country? TEST your awareness. Best Regards to all.

Creativity in excellence-Padmashree Shobhana as Krishna@FEKCA in Dubai

It is possible!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The impossible is possible!!  Excellent coordination of the three H’s- Head,Heart,&Hand in perfect action

 

On 16 th september,2011, ‘The Krishna Chronicles” in Dubai,staged by  Padmashree Shobhana,famous cine artist ,dancer&choreographer, really brought a perfection to the Onam celebrations conducted by FEKCA. It was indeed  a time spent  for its worth.When I have asked,my children  said ‘no,not coming'(the usual busy!) as well  their father.

But as we mothers always do, I could motivate  them  positively,and reach in time to attend the full ‘Krishna”.I was all the more happy when I heard  appreciation from the father and both the children;”excellent creativity”our son,medical student , exclaimed,”so  powerful body language”,our daughter added to it,though they are not used to such programs unlike myself.

While participating in that feast of wonderful  human dedication,putting the DNA of each cell into action,I was wondering,how beautifully she has used the EQ Skills,  in designing,directing,choreographing,presenting,coordinating the team members,customizing it for Dubai(40 =18 members) and  bridging the CULTURAL DIFFERENCES &DIVERSITIES in  small scale among  us- the audience- and in a wider screen ,in the whole world. That is how  the performance has become an explicit expression of  an excellent coordination of HEART,MIND & BODY.(the entire team) Creativity in excellence is  less for that,   excellent creativity and perfection in display ,is little  more apt.’‘Hearty Congras”

If it is possible,why can’t you also attain such excellence in any of your special God given talent,by mixing it with EQ Skills,Creativity,proper communication,Cross cultural Competence and  Diversity skills? Where we can get it, may be  your doubt?Don’t worry,along with your PERSONAL  skills,Give these skills as well,you can also be excellent .

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Cultural Diversity, what IF it lacks? Learn from, Maureen Chao’s experience

The media celebrated the incident ,[which is the lack of her awareness of cultural diversities in the region],as follows:

{“US Vice-Consul Maureen Chao told Indian students on Friday that her “skin became dirty and dark like the Tamilians” after a longtrain journey, according to Indian media — referring to people from the southern state of Tamil Nadu.”

“During her speech in the Tamil Nadu capital, Chennai, Chao was quoted as saying: “I was on a 24-hour train trip from Delhi to (the eastern Indian state of) Orissa.”
“But, after 72 hours, the train still did not reach the destination… and my skin became dirty and dark like the Tamilians.”..”

RESULT

“The United States has apologized for controversial remarks made by a US diplomat who spoke of “dark and dirty” Indians, calling the comments “inappropriate” } ”

The consul accepted her lack of awareness,by starting cross cultural studies,very seriously.
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“DOES IT FIT FOR ME? DOES TRAINING WORK?” CAN PEOPLE CHANGE? what is the scientific proof?

Recently,a man in his fifties,who is running a moderate business in The UAE CAPITAL ,asked:”At this age,does any training needed for me?Does it fit for me?Without all that,I am doing well,my employees are happy,what else you can do by this training?”

The Answer is there in the question itself .YES,People can change &”change starts today”.Whatelse and whatmore is the real question that we address,for inducing,implementing and propagating the change initiative, in&through various Global programs.Customizing an international module just to fit,(1) the mission and vision of an organization and(2)the need of the participant’s job status, is carried out strictly for our each session and so the required result is guaranteed.

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